The Service Oriented Conference is a one-day virtual conference aimed at all things service. The conference is for service providers, service receivers, those curious, those interested, and everyone in between. We welcome those from all backgrounds, races, ethnicities, genders, and identities who are interested in service learning, growth, and networking.
The Service Oriented Conference hosts classes, panels, and other educational events on both concrete service techniques and factors that impact the service we may give or receive. Topics focus on both personal service and community service, from the challenges of organizing events to the magic of folding a fitted sheet. Whatever you may think service includes, we hope to share a space where you can expand those ideas, learn new skills, and connect with other service-minded individuals.
October 4, 2025
This presentation includes an overview of the key elements of personal chef and bartending services and the establishment of rituals of personal food service. We will discuss the creation of sacred food spaces in the household and the role of all of these elements in supporting authority transfer/po...
Learn MoreJuggling multiple partners and dynamics can be rewarding—but keeping track of everyone's needs, boundaries, and care preferences can feel overwhelming. Enter the Care and Keeping document: a living, personalized tool designed to streamline communication and enhance connection. In this interactive...
Learn MoreJoin British Domme Sixtress to learn the finer points of a traditional English Afternoon Tea. Add a touch of elegance to your service dynamic with a thoughtfully prepared and expertly served "tea". This session will cover savoury nibbles, sweet treats, hot beverages and those with bubbles plus the s...
Learn MoreIn this class, we explore how knowledge of herbs can become a powerful tool of intentional service within D/s and M/s dynamics. Moving beyond traditional tea service, participants will learn how to use herbs to support, soothe, and honor their Dominants or dynamic through rituals, offerings, and car...
Learn MoreThis class is about service and an inner flow of energy and exchange from both parties to both satisfy, grow, and flourish in a dynamic. As a mutually anticipatory service-oriented Owner/property couple, we’ve learned that providing service to service can create an interesting exchange of emotion an...
Learn MoreWe have all heard the term topping from the bottom, and a bottom called a brat, but have we ever considered sometimes the service is ethically negotiated and the Top is fully aware? In this class lucky will delve in to the meaning of SIRvice, how it feeds dynamic and is not just for the right side o...
Learn MoreThis panel invites a candid conversation about the complicated intersection of community care, labor, and capitalism. As organizers, healers, educators, artists, and activists, many of us find ourselves doing deeply meaningful work—often for free or at low cost—because we believe in it. But how do w...
Learn MoreNew to the journey of exchanging power and authority in dynamics and seeking to brainstorm connective special tasks, protocols, and rituals? Always inspired by the grace and flow of folx that have been in dynamics along time and wondering how to incorporate that connection deeper into your dynamics?...
Learn MoreWhat happens in a dynamic when a sadist owns someone who is, in large part, not a masochist? Depending on the negotiations within that dynamic, masochism might become part of an s-type’s service to their D-type. In this class, we explore what this might look like within consent negotiations, includi...
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