"I want to serve," names the pull, but not the mechanism underneath it. Two people who both say that phrase might be chasing completely different things: one wants the structure of clear tasks, another wants the charge of anticipating an unspoken need, another just wants to be useful enough to be kept. In this workshop, vahavta walks you through a framework for reverse-engineering that pull into its actual parts so you can communicate as to what makes these interactions both fulfilling and sustainable for you as an individual. Through real examples, guided exercises, and on-the-spot feedback, you'll move from a vague pull to a usable map — and the vocabulary to ask for it. Any role or experience level welcome.