- Pronouns
- he/him/his and she/her
Stephan and Synda
Synda and Stephan have spent more than a decade building a 24/7 M/s dynamic while navigating life in a lively poly household full of service, protocol, laughter, chosen family, and controlled chaos. Together they are passionate about authentic connection, sustainable power exchange, and creating welcoming spaces where people can learn through honest conversation and shared experience. Stephan serves as a griot of the Carter Johnson Library and Collection Boston Annex, while both are active in community education and mentorship. Known for blending humor, practical experience, storytelling, and real-life perspective, they create classes that feel approachable, engaging, and grounded in lived experience rather than perfection.
Presenting:
Communication and Service
When someone is willing to give you their everything, to entrust their life in your hands, how does that change communication? A good submissive is not suppose to talk back, right? This discussion will challenge a lot of the beliefs or thoughts around M/s relationships and how communication betwee...
Learn MoreWhen Fantasy Meets Reality: Dinner Service
One of the most fantasized aspects of M/s relationships is formal white glove dinner service. In this class we take a deep dive into some of the traditions of formal dinner service as well as expectation setting for you and your guests. We will also discuss the logistics from meal planning and seati...
Learn MoreFormal Event Planning
Leather, kink, and fetish formal events are powerful spaces to honor community, tradition, and connection through ceremony, protocol, and style. This class will walk you through the essentials of planning and hosting formal events tailored to these unique cultures—from conceptualizing the vision to...
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Service Oriented Conference