Nonnie
A close-up image of Nonnie, a young white woman with dark curled hair and round gold glasses. She is wearing red lipstick and smirking slightly.
Pronouns
she/her

Nonnie

Budding presenter, Nonnie (she/her), boasts a rich history of BDSM/Kink philosophy, spanning 6+ years of research, forum discussion, online and IRL seminars, play, and many many published writings, including FetLife Kinktionary contributions.

Her passion for service-oriented D/s Dynamics is tied closely with her neurodivergent identity and role of Lifestyle Mother Dominant and Sadist. She is known for her intelligent takes and unique twists on established Kink, both in education and execution.

Living in Wichita, KS as the Head of Corium (a queer lap-sitting RA polyamorous family across multiple homes), Nonnie is intimately involved in her local Kink Community, including founding Nostalgia_ICT, the Midwest's first hybrid group for CG/L, ABDL, and petplay.

Presenting:

Service Chat with Nonnie

Join Nonnie for a chat about service! This session is intended to be an open and informal space for service receivers, service providers, those curious, and those in between. Bring your questions, share your stories, and come prepared to learn with an experienced and passionate member of the service...

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Offering vs. Requesting: How to Dominate and Submit through Anticipatory Service

Anticipatory service means predicting and fulfilling needs or solving problems before even being asked--without stepping on any toes. This term is commonly used in the hospitality industry and butlers' books. Explore the nuanced power exchange created when anticipatory service is offered, and how...

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