The Service Oriented Conference is a two-day virtual conference aimed at all things service. The conference is for service providers, service receivers, those curious, those interested, and everyone in between. We welcome those from all backgrounds, races, ethnicities, genders, and identities who are interested in service learning, growth, and networking.
The Service Oriented Conference hosts classes, panels, and other educational events on both concrete service techniques and factors that impact the service we may give or receive. Topics focus on both personal service and community service, from the challenges of organizing events to the magic of folding a fitted sheet. Whatever you may think service includes, we hope to share a space where you can expand those ideas, learn new skills, and connect with other service-minded individuals.
October 10-11, 2026
Join us as we open the Service Oriented Conference with our keynote presentation by Jayson DaBoi.
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Join us for the conclusion of our wonderful weekend of service education with our keynote speakers Master David and brynn(she/her)
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Leather, kink, and fetish formal events are powerful spaces to honor community, tradition, and connection through ceremony, protocol, and style. This class will walk you through the essentials of planning and hosting formal events tailored to these unique cultures—from conceptualizing the vision to...
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Service isn’t just about what we do—it’s about how we sustain it. For many service types, the invisible labor of remembering details, anticipating needs, and managing tasks can become overwhelming without the right tools and structures. This class dives into the practical and emotional side of servi...
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W/we often hear community members speak on living with Leather or BDSM community values, but rarely do W/we hear talk of how O/our values influence O/our service and play. In this class W/we will bring O/our values to the surface, discuss the ways in which they align with O/our communities, and disc...
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Does the role really exist? Absolutely. It is far more than taking notes or managing schedules. An international secretary operates at the intersection of language, culture, protocol, and logistics. They learn to navigate multiple time zones, translate not just words but customs and expectations, an...
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It can feel strange to not be in a dynamic or to be uninvolved. It often seems this entire community is set up for partnered people. Single, un-partnered participants may feel out of place. This class is designed to help you navigate and appreciate this time on your journey. The class goal is to hel...
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Living with chronic pain or illness can make it difficult to provide service, whether as a love language or as a kink — but not impossible. In this class, we will explore different strategies and tips for providing service while managing physical and emotional spoons. We will discuss how to prioriti...
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Learn how to harness your own authentic style of feminine dominance and put it into action! This class helps you find your own personalized approach to femdom, get more comfortable inhabiting a dominant or submissive role, and provides tools for developing your own authentic femdom dynamics, across...
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When someone is willing to give you their everything, to entrust their life in your hands, how does that change communication? A good submissive is not suppose to talk back, right? This discussion will challenge a lot of the beliefs or thoughts around M/s relationships and how communication betwee...
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Anticipatory service means predicting and fulfilling needs or solving problems before even being asked--without stepping on any toes. This term is commonly used in the hospitality industry and butlers' books. Explore the nuanced power exchange created when anticipatory service is offered, and how...
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